Welcome men (and women). So you or your partner is having a hard time lasting in bed. Weather its a severe case of premature ejaculation or you'd just like to add a few extra minutes to your lasting time there are no shortage of people, products and web pages claiming to offer the best method of curing premature ejaculation for you.
It's tough to weed through all those brash claims and promises to find a solution that will work for you. So here I give you the ultimate list of premature ejaculation treatment methods.
We have tried to be as independent as possible and have listed the strengths and weaknesses of each treatment or method.
While we don't consider premature ejaculation to be a medical issue in the vast majority of cases, there are a few instances where it has a genuine medical cause. In these cases it is important that you consult you medical professional.
The stop and start method was originally devised by a team of researches called Masters and Johnson and marked one of the earliest doccumented attmepts at treating premature ejaculation through exercises.
It can be completed either on your own or with a partner and is an exercises that involves stimulation the male until just before the point of orgasm. At this point
We have talked in detail about the herbal kind of premature ejaculation pill and what you can expect from them. There are quite a few brands of premature ejaculation pills sold on line with some looking more dubious than others.
But the most important thing is what's in them, and what this ingredient can do to help you last longer in bed. Let's take a look.
After checking out the 5 most popular brands of premature ejaculation tablets, most contained at least 3 of the following ingredient.
Also present in most of these pills is a large amount of filler ingredient. Usually a combination of 2 or more of the following ingredeince
None of the active ingredient of these pills has been proven to work on any evidence based test.
There are quite a few anecdotal reports online about the effectiveness of these pills, however most are on Affiliate websites who make large commissions by recommending these pills so are likely to be fudged and fake.
So now we are heading left field with this next premature ejauculation treatment method but we did say that we would cover everything here.
Can you hypnotize yourself to stop prematurely ejaculation?
Disclaimer: I am an expert on premature ejaculation, but I'm not a doctor. If you are considering this route, or if you feel that your premature ejaculation is caused by a genuine medical issue you should talk to a trusted medical practitioner.
To date there have been no specifically designed drugs or medication to treat premature ejaculation Yet in some cases specialists will prescribe SSRI (also known as anti-depression) medication.
In trials some men did report an extended duration of intercourse after using a course of this medication. While the results were not overly conclusive.
While premature ejaculation is almost always a non medical issue there are some cases where it is so severe
Kegels is the name given to pelvic floor exercises that were originally developed to assist pregnant women prepare for childbirth.
The logic behind Kegels excises as a method to treat premature ejaculation is pretty straight forward. Kegels work the pelvic floor muscles around the prostate. These are the same muscles that trigger ejaculation in men. So it seems to make sense that exerting these muscles would be beneficial to men who can last in bed.
The problem with this assumption is that there is a big difference between strengthening these muscles and gaining control over their state.
These are actually one of the hardest muscles in the body to control and while kegals may strengthen this area, it will not lead to increased control unless done in a highly focused way and in combination with other ejaculatory control methods.
Some men have reported that kegals have made their premature ejaculation problem worse so make sure to get some qualified advice before starting an exercise regime to target your premature ejaculation
Recently there's been a few large companies who have been heavily marketing a numbing spray as a premature ejaculation treatment. While there is nothing new about this approach to last longer in bed, it does seem to be becoming a popular way to go for some men looking for a quick fix.
We've discussed these sprays for premature ejaculation previously and as with so many of the "quick fix" methods of treating premature ejaculation it falls well short of many men's expectations.
Another approach along the "desensitizing" line, is to use a so called "Last longer condom". These condoms have a small amount of anesthetic on the inside which deadens your genital sensation in much the same way as premature ejaculation sprays do.
This approach has many of the same drawback as all other numbing products. There is also a higher chance of inadvertently applying some of the active ingredient to your partner which will lead to a lack of sensitivity for her, likely making it next to impossible for her to reach orgasm.
Positives of Last Longer Condoms
Drawbacks of Numbing Condoms
At the other end of the spectrum comes the Ol' distraction method as featured in collage movies, locker rooms and online forums. You might be surprised to learn that this is one of the worst things you can do if you want to permanently last longer in bed.
Mike discusses this in chapter 6 of the Beyond Delay training course where he shows men how to get in the zone during intercourse. He teaches some killer techniques but he also starts of the chapter by explaining why turning in and not out is the best way avoid the perception on an overly sensitive penis.
While there have been some very average books and training courses sold online as a treatment for premature ejaculation in the past, this analysis will use the Beyond Delay premature ejaculation method as the benchmark for this treatment method.
Most men don't really know what to expect when they first here about a "premature ejaculation training program". They may envisage a range of weird and awkward exercises, or grueling training but the reality is quite different.
The key for a good premature ejaculation training system to work is to focus on improving a range of skills and areas that a known to contribute to premature ejaculation.
Beyond delay does incorporate some of the exercises based treatments discussed here (such as kegels and stop and start), albeit a much more advanced method using them. But the real trick is to combine that with a range of other skills.
And that leaves us to the problem with many of the treatments for premature ejaculation discussed here. They are just to singular. The only attack the problem from one angle.
The real key to lasting longer is to use a multi pronged approach and work on improving all these skills at once.
I cover these skills to help you last longer in bed and develop ejaculatory control here.
Every man is different and so there will not be a universal approach for everyone. Many guys who I work with have already tried I few of these treatments such as herbal pills or numbing sprays.
It's important for you to decide what you want. Is sex important to you? Do you just want a quick fix or are you prepared to put some work in and train yourself.
If you feel there may be a problem within your prostate area it's important to get it checked out by a qualified medical practitioner.